Wednesday 4 November 2009

Why do Black Men Treat White Women Better?

Hi,
Welcome to my blog.As the title say's, Why do black Men treat white women better?
Chances are. If you're a black guy, you been ask this question by a black woman right?
To be completely honest i treat people as individuals and certainly not according to their skin colour. However this does not answer the question. but before i attempt to answer that question, allow me to share my views on the matter.

Today, we are living in an age where white girls are dating black men. Some decades ago, this would have been unheard of. There are many reasons why white girls are dating black men and defying the barriers of culture and race. First, though let us examine some of the stereotypes that exist both for the white community and the black community. White people have been seen as the more superior race. This is mainly because their societies have really developed and many white societies of the world are richer compared to black societies. The black man has had a reputation of crime and being the person to serve the white man. This is a slavery mentality which has not been fully eliminated even today. Because of these different stereotypes, the dating scene has been keen to keep the whites away from blacks and blacks away from whites. Since white girls are going for black men, it is interesting to look at the reasons why.

White girls are dating black men because of the cultural awareness that has prevailed over the last few years. Blacks and whites have had opportunities to learn about each other. We have come to realise that we are all humans and part of the same world. Apart from cultural integration, white girls are dating black men because they compliment each other. This is to say that girls have found interesting attributes or qualities in black men that really make their lives better. The wave of young people and new ideologies has really contributed a lot also. Young people are no longer holding conservative ideologies and they have really warmed up to all members of society.

Another reason why white girls are dating black men is for the open secret that black men are brilliant. I'm sure you must have heard that a black man has been reinforced with special skill when it comes to bedroom matters? I for one would have to agree on that. Black men sell like hot cakes for this reason. Perhaps it is their tough exterior that makes them who they are. Black men are undoubtedly the coolest men in the world. For this reason, all girls whether black or white will want to associate with them. No matter the reason, it is vital for you to look beyond colour and really judge a person for who they really are. This way, you are going to enter into relationships that cut across race. Regardless of your skin colour, Love is universal and knows no boundaries.

BACK TO OUR SUBJECT!!!

I have been asked that question far too many times. Obviously this is an issue amongs many black women!!
Speaking to a friend last night, This is what she had to say !!

I can only say from what I have seen as my brother has been married to 2 different white women and I have many friends in mixed relationships. I believe that a white Woman will go out of her way to please her black man. She will learn to cook his food and do the things that will make him happy because the 2 cultures are so different and she feels that she must fit in. She will also put up with his crap far longer than a black woman will. I have seen some good looking black men with some down and out white women and thought to myself, if your black woman looked like that you would not walk the streets with her. It is very annoying.

Well!! lets hear your comments please.